张朝阳：很多父母都没活明白，只会让孩子考公考研

金错刀2025-11-25

张朝阳的这番表述主要出自2024年他参与的网络访谈节目《星空下的对话》。在与冯仑对谈时，他谈及年轻人发展方向选择的问题，提出了这一观点。

他认为，当下许多60后、70后的父母自身“这辈子还没搞清楚”人生方向，却习惯性地引导子女将考公务员、考研作为首要甚至唯一的人生路径，主要是出于对“安全”和“保障”的追求。

张朝阳指出，即便成功“上岸”，未来的日子也“不一定很好”，并强调更具经济活力与发展潜力的往往是民营经济领域。他甚至更直接地表达过，如果从现实机会的角度看，他认为年轻人尝试直播带货可能比花费数年时间考研更具价值。

张朝阳的观点提醒父母和社会，需要尊重个体的差异性和独特性，帮助年轻人培养适应变化、自主决策的能力。同时，我们也应理解年轻人选择背后的现实考量。理想的状态或许是社会能提供更包容的成长环境和更多元的成功路径定义，让每个人在认识世界的同时也更好地认识自己，从而做出更贴合自身特质和内心所向的选择。

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